..How 2 Make Friends At School..

Every teen wants 2 belong sumwhere at skul.

U may ask what characteristics determine who will b accepted in2 a clique or not. In de case of being popular, it usually depends on who is beautiful or physically fit, who has de most friends, and who exudes personal outward confidence. In our technological world today, teens R finding that acceptance is also driven by how many calls dey get on deir cell phone and how many instant messaging conversations dey can keep up at one time. Geeks R infatuated with new technology, computers, n inventing, while jocks can talk all day bout sports n famous sports stars.

Here R sum tips 2 help ya develop confidence n make friends at school:

• Build up confidence. Focus on what you are confident about, whether it be math, science, track, or chess. Are there any clubs at school associated with these interests?
• Limit friendships. Concentrate on finding one or two really good friends. After feeling comfortable with a few people, it will be easier to open up and make new friends in the future.
• Ask questions. People love to talk about themselves. Just listen intently and remember points that they make, so you can bring them up at a later time.
• Use friendly gestures. Try smiling and laughing a bit when talking to others. This will help loosen you up and make you feel more relaxed.
• Attitude check. Sometimes being shy means that you come across as untouchable or not wanting to make friends. Don't give this impression, if at all possible.
• Give it time. As social skills start to develop in the early pre-teen years, you will find it easier to communicate with others. It will take its natural course.
• Be picky. Don't make friends with the wrong group of people. You do not want to get mixed up with kids who like to gossip about others or put others down just to fit in.
• Befriend another shy person. There is strength in numbers. Why not make friends and the two of you can support each other.
• Be yourself. Trying to be just like someone else is hard work, especially if you are shy to boot. Making friends is not about mimicking to fit in. You want friends who like you just the way you are.

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